Seseorang
bertanya sama gue, “Kenapa ga suka sama dia? Kan tipe kamu tuh.” Ehem. Dan gue
tiba-tiba keinget sama satu buku, dimana isinya begini…
“I used to think that finding the right one was about the man having a list
of certain qualities. If he has them, we'd be compatible and happy. Sort of a
check mark system that was a complete failure. But I found out that a healthy
relationship isn't so much about sense of humor or intelligence or attractive.
It's about avoiding partners with harmful traits and personality types. And
then it's about being with a good person. A good person on his own, and a good
person with you. Where the space between you feels uncomplicated and happy. A
good relationship is where things just work. They work because, whatever the
list of qualities, whatever the reason, you happen to be really, really good
together.”
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