Soul Mate

“People think a soul mate is your perfect fit, and that’s whay everyone wants. But a true soul mate is a mirror, the person who shows you everything that is holding you back, the person who brings you to your own attention so you can change your life.

A true soul mate is probably the most important person you’ll ever meet, because they tear down your walls and smack you awake. But to live with a soul mate forever? Nah. Too painful. Soul mates, they come into your life just to reveal another layer of yourself to you, and then leave.

A soul mates purpose is to shake you up, tear apart your ego a little bit, show you your obstacles and addictions, break your heart open so new light can get in, make you so desperate and out of control that you have to transform your life, then introduce you to spiritual master…”

- Elizabeth Gilbert, Eat, Pray, Love.

Cheating

One of the most worst things that you could ever do to someone. If you’re not happy with who you’re with, then leave them. There isn’t a use staying around when you don’t even feel the same way anymore. Don’t think about how much you’re going to hurt them, of course it’s going to hurt them. By breaking up with them, you’ve giving them time, time to get over you. By staying around just because you don’t want to cause them pain will just give them false hope. Causing them even more pain. As each day does go by, you’re only making them suffer more and more as they fall for you even harder as each day goes by. If you’re not happy, then leave. It’s as simple as that. There is no excuse for cheating on someone. If you did it, then you did it. The end. So do the one that couldn’t handle losing you a favor, leave. While they’re still capable of going on without you. Don’t leave it too late. You never know what could happen to them if you’ve been there for them for too long. They start to lean on you, you become a part of them. They make you their everything and once you leave, they’ll be left with nothing. So leave, while they still have something..